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If I Knew Then… from the founder of Willa Skincare

July 10, 2013 Reviewed by admin 9 Comments

I was three years younger than a famous teen model when I devoured her biography. She was THE “It girl,” and she was a teenager, like me. So when she declared eating 1,000 calories of M&Ms is the same as eating 1,000 calories of any other food, we were willing to believe her. There were so many too-good-to-be-true revelations then. Remember this one: Home perms don’t damage your hair.

So, yes, I wish I knew then what I know now.

Most of these “life lessons” were harmless. And whenever common sense failed me, science usually came to the rescue and I made course corrections.

But there was one lesson I learned too late. It was so important I was determined that my daughters and other girls would not repeat that same mistake. I had just turned 29. I was a new mom and our daughter, Willa, was at home with a sitter while I was sitting in a packed hospital waiting room. People with puffy white bandages covering an ear, part of a nose, or a cheek surrounded me. I was the next patient whose face would be cut to remove a skin cancer. How did this happen to me? How did the girl with the Mediterranean complexion, who tanned so easily and who “treated” breakouts by drying them in the sun get in this situation? How could I have been so wrong?

It began when I discovered a pimple under my eye. It morphed into a scab that would bleed every time I washed my face. Eventually, I went to a dermatologist who wasted no time referring me to a MOHS surgeon. Until that moment I had never heard the term “MOHS.” But I learned MOHS is the most effective surgery for removing basal cell cancers like mine. Apparently mine was deep, which meant the surgeon had to go through four layers of tissue to remove all the cancer cells.

Every year there are more new cases of skin cancer than there are of all cancers combined: More skin cancer cases than breast cancer or prostate, lung and colon cancers combined. What’s more, the incidence of people under 30 developing melanoma is increasing at a faster rate than any other age group. Many people have a genetic predisposition for melanoma. But studies also show a clear cause-and-effect relationship between exposure to the sun and skin cancer.

Yes, I wish I knew then what I know now.

I also wish I knew that every day I was out in the sun without sunscreen I was causing premature aging of my skin. Vanity was – and continues to be – a powerful motivator for good behavior.

After my MOHS surgery I resolved to get serious about taking care of my skin. But every dermatologist I saw said the same thing: “Christy, what is going on with your skin is a direct result of what you did or didn’t do when you were younger. The fact is fully 80% of lasting skin damage happens by age 18.” So while it may be too late for me – for so many of us Moms – to get it right… for our young daughters, healthy skin is all about prevention – and starting young.

We don’t wait for our kids to get a cavity before we get them to brush their teeth. So why would we wait for them to get a breakout or a sunburn for them to start taking care of their skin? After all, it’s our largest organ.

So when Willa was 8 and showing signs she was ready to start taking ownership of her skin, I was shocked to find there were virtually no natural skincare products formulated for girls. We looked everywhere: Mass drugstores, high end apothecaries and department stores. We found nothing but pink bubblegum-scented chemical formulations made in China.

So we started “willa.” It took us four years of development before we had it right and were ready to introduce willa natural skincare products. The first year we spent talking to girls and their moms in focus groups. We knew how important it was to understand girls’ behavior – or lack of behavior – when it came to taking care of their skin. We wanted to know why a girl doesn’t like to wash her face – or why she resists sunscreen (especially when her mom slathers it on.)

We learned: “I don’t like sunscreen because it is sticky and makes me look like a ghost.” So we made sure our formulations went on dry and added a slight tint to offset the super white of zinc oxide and titanium dioxide. Girls told us they don’t like to moisturize their skin because they are afraid it will clog their pores and make their face look greasy. So we developed an oil-free moisturizer that goes on clear without a shine. I knew that if I wanted Willa and other girls to take ownership of their skin, they needed to love the way the products look, smell and feel. They had to love using the products because no amount of nagging ever created a healthy habit.

Today our 7-year-old, Julia, now puts on willa sunscreen on rainy days in November. And we hear every day from girls all over the country how much they love using willa. That’s our big secret. At willa, we make great natural skincare products girls actually want to use, so they can make a habit of taking care of themselves. Now girls have not only the knowledge, but also the tools to have a different skincare story than their mothers.

Also read what Marta wished she had known in her youth.

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  • July 13, 2013

    by Ann marie

    I have two girls, 10 and 11. To my surprise, my ten year old recently started asking lots of questions about skincare and started a nighttime routine using some of my products. My 11 year old is slowly participating. The timing of this couldn't be better. They both have pale skin so a sunscreen is something I would love them to be excited about using (not the case today), and I would love to get them started on natural skincare product line designed for their age group.

    I am thrilled to have learned about this product line. Thank You!

  • July 12, 2013

    by Cilla

    Reading this while my 10 year old daughter is vacationing at the beach with family in Florida! Because she is native Ecuadorian with almond colored skin that turns a deep tan in a matter of days sunburn is something she thinks applies to pale skin tones. She isn't aware yet that her skin is actually quite sensitive. Would love to find something she can enjoy using every day with all the benefits of sunscreen. Will provide feedback on products as experienced by my daughter and hopefully benefit other girls with similar skin type.
    As a British mum who spent a lot of my younger years in sunny South Africa will get checked for skin cancer (have been putting it off). So thank you!

  • July 12, 2013

    by Charley

    Thank you for this article, Christy, and for creating Willa. I'm looking forward to your products.

    Do/can you recommend antioxidant balm for toddlers? My 2-year old niece's legs are getting really tanned in spite of using SPF 50 because they stick out of her stroller. For that matter, should we worry about putting something on her less-bronzed cheeks? I haven't tried anything yet because I worry about accumulation of preservatives on such a small body, even those touted as less harmful. Also are high-performing actives safe, (un)necessary, waste of money for kids? Should I just slather her with rosehip oil?

  • July 10, 2013

    by Holli

    My 11yo niece would love this. She already blogs about beauty products and it would be great for her to try products that are actually good for her skin.

  • July 10, 2013

    by Angie

    I have 2 daughters 14 and 7, I would love to try the Willa products on them. My 14 yr. old has especially sensitive skin, this sounds like a great line of skin care products for her to use.
    Thanks for consideration.

  • July 10, 2013

    by Aimee

    Christy...Wow! I am very impressed at how you have gone forward to do positive things after such a negative experience. I applaud you!

    My granddaughter, Gabriela, is almost 7, very tall for her age (takes after me), and, quite mature and compassionate in her actions. She is an outdoor girl and I have lately been quite concerned about the protection of her skin. She is 3/4 European (after me and her father) and 1/4 Black (she is from South Africa) and her skin is slightly darker than a Caucasian and looks like an Italian. I think her mother thinks that darker skin is a saviour which is not correct, especially as you have commented.

    I hope that you choose my granddaughter to try out your Willa products. I think that she will be very excited! I will also share her story (and your daughter's) with her and her mother.

    Thank you so much for your postive actions!

  • July 10, 2013

    by Michele

    This Willa skincare line sounds great. my daughter is 7.
    In my 30s now and alot of sun damage later, , I have just started taking care of my skin and using daily sunscreen and I'm trying to get my daughter to do the same. You're never too young to care for your skin!

  • July 10, 2013

    by Susan H

    This is fantastic to know that there is something out there for my daughter. She has extremely sensitive skin, and everything in OTC skin care makes her break out. I am so thankful to have read this!

  • July 10, 2013

    by Marta

    Christy, thank you so much for taking the time to share this with the Truth In Aging community. I so admire what you have achieved with your family and your business - your courage, wisdom and energy are an inspiration.

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